I truly try to never feel sorry for myself....honestly. But some times it happens. Yesterday was a another gloomy gray day. Ted was off with his brothers for lunch, to plan their annual fishing trip. I had nothing to do and nowhere to go. You know you can sit by the phone for an eon and it will never ring, unless you leave home. LOL... Just when I was really feeling lonely and wishing for girlfriends to go shopping with or just to run around with....the mail came ...and I knew someone cared. Thank you so much Kris. You truly touched my heart. .
Kris at Junk Chic Cottage, sent me a gift. It's chocolates , a pen,and Christmas stationary. I love it. I enjoy writing letters and cards, so it's a perfect gift. Who doesn't want a sweet bit of chocolate with a coffee once in a while? :):) The main thing was knowing someone was thinking of me, just when I was so lonely. I am blessed.
There's so much love in our blog world. Good caring people . Friends who lift us in prayer when we are in need. Friends who for no reason at all maybe thinking of us. I am thankful for everyone I have met thru blogging.
I did do outdoor decorating , on the porch. I walked around outside, saying prayers as I walk. I went to DQ for a lunch. When I got there a family was just finishing up their lunches. LOL So while I was there, no one else came in to have lunch. No one other than the help and I in the whole place. LOL...
Here's hoping today is a great for all of you. If you are ever lonely, you are in my prayers, and I am sending hugs to you. XO
Susie, if I lived near you I would have picked you up and we would have gone out to lunch and we would have hit all our favorite shops. I'm so glad God gave you a little love gift in the mail. He uses Kris all the time for such things. She's a sweetheart. I just love her. So glad you and I have met through Blogland. I concur with everything you said. Blogging has been an incredible blessing through the relationships I've formed. Hugs, Nancy
ReplyDeleteThank you Nancy. That is so sweet of you. Today I went to my daughter's and she told me to never be lonely, always come by and we could do anything like walking, wrapping gifts, or baking. When I am lonely, it's my fault that I don't call someone..or fear that I may interrupt their lives. Blessings, xoxo,Susie
DeleteSometimes I get very lonely too. My house is filled with kids but sometimes I miss adult interaction. That's why I love our ladies group so much. It allows me girl time at least twice a month for a few hours. I'm so happy that the mail pepped your spirits. People don't realize just how much the little things mean sometimes!
ReplyDeleteAngie, I think you hit on it...adult communication. I was raised with 10 siblings, worked over 30 years, raised four daughters...I have always had someone around...so when no one is around it seems lonely. I like to send cards and letters...because I love getting them, so I know it helps others. I send my old neighbors cards and a couple ladies our mother ran with. It has to help. Blessings, xoxo,Susie
DeleteWhat a wonderful and thoughtful gift from Kris. I get lonely sometimes too. It's difficult on holidays not having children/grandchildren and all the siblings/nieces etc. live far away. We sometimes drive to DQ for a small ice cream cone...just sit in the car and watch people while we eat! lol I am thankful for each of my blog friends. In the 7 or so years I've been blogging, I am appreciative of all the prayers for us and it is a privilege to pray for others. God bless your day. xoxo
ReplyDeleteMildred, My daughter gave me the dickens for coming by yesterday. She said I do not have to be lonely, she and I can do something. I just feel like I maybe imposing , so I am reluctant to go by or call. So from now on I will go over her house. Like today, I helped her make potato soup and clean up the dishes. We looked at all her gifts for Christmas for her kids. But I will say again, I am blessed to have my blog family too. Blessings to you and your husband, xoxo,Susie
DeleteSuch a thoughtful gift from your friend.DQ is a favorite of ours too. I would love to live close to you and go places together. Yes, blogland is a great place to meet and get to know the nicest ladies, I am so thankful for all and there prayers, some days that is what gets me through to the next day. God is good and puts others in our lives for just that reason.
ReplyDeleteHave a Blessed Sunday.
Sylvia, I have lots of classmate friends that we get together once a month...but it's is not the same as a dear friend to share your time with. My best friend passed away 3 years ago...I miss our shopping trips. Can't seem to get my sisters interested. God is good to me , He's always been there when I needed Him. So that is why I count my blessings. Bless you dear friend, xoxo,Susie
DeleteWouldn't it be great if we could get all of our precious blogging friends together just for one outing? Food and thrift stores - that would be great! Loneliness is something I live with every day and I am so blessed to have family near and dear but there is still so many times, it is just so quiet and lonesome. But, God is so good and has given me so many dear friends and family who try to hard to keep me occupied.
ReplyDeleteKris is one of the most generous bloggers I know. She is the sweetest person. Isn't it amazing how one item in the mail can lift your spirits?
Have a great week.
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Judy, I know there must be some terribly lonely times for you. I am alone a lot of times. ...but I could call my children or sisters. I feel that I may be interrupting my daughters and at times my sisters can be crabby...I can even try to figure that out. I am so thankful for my family and friends. I think Ted is my best friend and when he is with others I feel left out. I sure do not want to be that way. LOL. Hugs to you dear Judy. Blessings too, xoxo,Susie
DeleteGirl...I'm gonna tell you something. I'm home alone Mon-Fri evenings. All you need to do is give me a call, or text. I think I gave you my phone number awhile back. I'm usually doing some sort of work errand around the house because of building, but you could come over anyway and have some tea and a chat. Just hop on the new highway and you're here in 15! You could bring Patty Beck with you. She's supposed to come out here for a couple of years now! Now I'm going to go over and say hi to Kris! She must be a real sweetheart!
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Cindy, Next year when Patty Beck has her open house, I would love to go there and met up with you. My daughter told me today to start coming over or calling any time I feel that lonely. So I guess I can . I just don't like to be in the way or put people out. I truly appreciate your invitation...that alone means so much to me. I am not normally a whiney butt, LOL. Cindy, You will love Kris. She and her husband are hard working people like you and Shug...they work on their home lots too. Bless you dear girl, xoxo,Susie
DeleteI was feeling lonely yesterday too, during the day I was busy and enjoying the day, but as evening neared I was missing my grandson. I didn't get any good mail (like you did) but a facebook friend messaged me and that was helpful. We never know who/how God will send us what we need. Today is a new day, hoping you are feeling much better...btw that was some GREAT mail you got!
ReplyDeleteLinda, At times I will miss my mother to the point of tears...I just go ahead and cry and then say a prayer..it seems to help. I miss my Emma Pooh , just like you miss your grandson. Our love for them runs deep. It is a good feeling to know that God knows when we just need a hug. Blessings, xoxo,Susie
DeleteIt's wonderful how a little gift can reach you right at the right time...Kris is a sweetheart...xoxo
ReplyDeleteLinda, I am thankful for all my blog friends. That is one reason I like to send cards and letters...cause some times a small gesture, can touch a heart. Blessings, xoxo,Susie
DeleteHow wonderful to receive that gift in the mail when you felt lonely!
ReplyDeleteI love my blogging friends too, like you!! xx
Kay, I am so thankful for my blog family of friends. You too sweet girl. I guess our Lord knows when we may need a hug. Blessings, xoxo,Susie
DeleteWhat a sweet sweet gift from a special lady. It really does brighten your day to know you are thought of by a friend. And getting to know blog buddies has been a blessing to me. I don't live near family so I sometimes feel sad about that. But then I can hop on my blog and visit to my heart's content! Sweet hugs, Diane
ReplyDeletediane, I love getting on line and checking on our blog families. I am blessed that family is near by most times. Bless you dear friend, xoxo,Susie
DeleteThat was so nice of Kris and perfect timing to brighten your day! There are so many lovely blogging gals!
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Deb, I think some times we are lonely to be with our families. After holiday celebrating things seem almost too quiet. LOL. Bless you, xoxo,Susie
DeleteSusie- That Kris is an angel on Earth! She is just one of those people that gives and gives and gives of herself and her heart...and it happened on a day when you needed it most. xo Diana
ReplyDeleteDiana, I love getting mail and sending mail. I think the memories of old times past with our family had me down a bit. Our first thanksgiving without our brother, Mark. I enjoy being friends with Kris...she is so kind to everyone. Blessings to you dear friend, xoxo,Susie
DeleteBeing lonely is hard, especially in the winter, and EXTRA hard during the holiday season. So glad the mail brought you some joy!
ReplyDeleteSweet Tea, you and Nana Diana were the first to leave me comments when I started blogging...so you are family. I think once the hubbub of celebrating is over, the holiday period can be a bit sad for many of us. I try to keep busy praying for others to not even think of myself...but at times...well you know, it happens. Blessings to you sweet lady, xoxo,Susie
DeleteHow sweet that the Lord knows our every need and sends his angels to cheer us!
ReplyDeleteYou are a people person - or so it seems to me!
Believe it or not - I am not! I crave alone time and do not have much of it so I treasure it when I do.
Linda, I think because I have never been really alone my whole life...too much quiet gets to me. LOL. Remember I was married before I knew you did not have to have four of your siblings sleeping at the foot of your bed. LOL. Plus over 30 years of working. I like a bit of quiet time...but after the rejoicing on holidays it's too soon. Blessings, love you, Susie
DeleteGod hears our prayers, knows our needs and speaks to the hearts of those who are willing to bless. I'm happy to know He heard your heart and ministered joy to you! Blessings, Cindy xoxo
ReplyDeleteCindy, I do try to keep busy praying for others , so I don't think of myself so much...but at times. I think I need my children near. Plus this was our first thanksgiving without our brother Mark. Too many old memories can be sad. Blessings to you sweet Cindy, xoxo,Susie
DeleteThe gifts were so sweet of Kris to send! and so cute too. It sounds like it was perfect timing, Susie.
ReplyDeleteKImberly , It just seemed to be the right moment in time. I have always said , all we all ever want is, to be loved and remembered. Kris is a sweet gentle lady with a kind heart. I am blessed to know all of you in my blog family. xoxo,Susie
DeleteBoy I hate days like that. I live too far from my family and don't have a big network of friends up here so I know the feeling. That was such a sweet gift to receive. That would have made my day too!
ReplyDeleteLiz, I know that I can write exactly how I feel on my blog and not be judged. ...for I know many others must have the same feelings or thoughts. I truly feel blessed to know so many wonderful blog friends....you all have become my blog family. Some times we just need each other. I have no close girlfriends to do things with ....I miss that in my life at this time. Holiday time can be a bit rough once the celebrating is over. Blessings to you dear Liz, xoxo,Susie
DeleteI have to say since I've been on Blogger I have not made the connections that I made back on Spaces. There are only a few people that I knew then that are left here. And my dearest friend from Spaces, Beth, is no longer with us. I spoke with many of them on the phone, from here in the states to Asia, but I still enjoy blogging.
ReplyDeleteBoston Boy, I think many bloggers are doing face book and those other things, that I can't even begin to use or understand. I love all of you people I have met while blogging. We never know what we all may have in common or how we could help each thru prayer or having had similar experiences.. I miss Beth too ...she and I would talk about what ever weather went thru her area would usually come thru here too. She was such a great person....it seems she did not get to stay with us long once she became sick. Hope you are doing well Paul...I think about you getting ready to work less and less...I know you will not miss that traffic at times. Blessings to you, xoxo,Susie
DeleteWhat a nice gift just when you would enjoy it most. Have fun writing those letters. Think of all those who'll be blessed and the beat goes on... Hope that you have plans for when your hubby and his brothers are on their fishing trip. =D
ReplyDeleteVee, I have been looking this stationary over and thinking who would love to receive one. I think my g.daughter in Florida for sure. I send cards to two ladies that were my mom's friends and a lady that still lives in my neighborhood , where I grew up. Love those ladies. Yes, I will be great when hubby goes fishing...it will be late Spring. Bless you, xoxo,Susie
DeleteWhat a nice gift from your blog friend, Susie, and just when you needed it. The Christmas stationery is so cute; lots of red on the cards. I also love to send cards and notes out. You are definitely in my thoughts, and I consider you one of my most beloved blog friends. So, if you ever get lonely, please remember that. : )
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Thank you so much Sheri. You are one of my favorites too. I have always appreciated your kind comments. Blessings, love, Susie
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